I complained to my friend Chris that I was having a hard time figuring out who I was. 

"Start out with one thing, say: 'I like X' and work from there," Chris said. That seemed easy, too easy. What about the variables, when liking X meant denying Y, and the questions that came with it? 

"Don't worry about that, you'll get to it," Chris said. 

He was right.

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